You cannot become a peacemaker without communication. Silence is a passive aggressive grenade thrown by insecure people that want war, but they don't want the accountability of starting it.

Shannon L. Alder
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You cannot become a peacemaker without communication. Silence is a passive aggressive grenade thrown by insecure people that want war, but they don't want the accountability of starting it. How many times have you been trying to get someone to agree with you and talking yourself out of it? If you're not communicating, you're really not trying to solve a problem. If someone doesn't want to communicate with you, then don't try to reason with them because that's going to make things worse. You have two choices: You can accept that they aren't going to communicate, or you can try again the next time around thinking that they might be more receptive.

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